Saturday, 17 August 2013

How could you just do it!

"Bey tune itne kaand kiye the kya apne school me?" 
[Man! You really attempted feats like these in your school days? ]

"Itna kuch samajta tha kya tujhe 9 ke age me?"
[Could you really understand these things just at 9?]

"Bro! Kaafi shocking laga ye sab padhke"
[Bro, I was shocked to read your posts]

These were few of the many reactions that I got when my peers, my siblings and my dearest friends read my previous blog about my first crush! The rest of the reactions are too brash or lets just say too friendly to be mentioned here! Frankly, I was expecting such reactions but I still feel it amusing! 

Then there were some friends who were delighted to read those posts and who told me how it refreshed their memories and made them re-live their school days. And then there were some who commented that I was insincere. lol ;-) :-P

During my school days I used to be a shy kind of kid, though I used to be very active in other matters. I never liked it when others would try to stick my name with some girl or make spicy stories about me. I had been a victim of bullying too. I was not too vocal either when it came to using slangs or picking up fights. That continued till my high-school days.

But things started changing when I came to engineering, to be more precise - Mechanical Engineering. These 4 years of graduation taught me how to live openly, not being afraid of these good for nothing bullies & insecure people and live life on my own terms. [P.S- I even learnt the basics of Mech. engineering]

Now when I look back at all my feats and deeds of childhood I feel funny. I totally agree I was a fool but at the same time I would also quote that it was all childish and innocent. Every one has some or the other story, some they had liked earlier or someone they still like or even someone they had been together with. Then how am I different from them?

The only difference that I see is, that I dared to share those funny incidents with people around me while others don't. Each incident, each story has taught me something really valuable. I am glad that they happened to me and hence I chose to share them here. :-D

A very special friend of mine asked me how could I get attracted to so many girls at the same time. I answered her, that there were some peculiar things that we had in common that pulled me towards them. In turn she appreciated me very much for being honest. I feel glad about it

There were some who tried moral policing on me, saying that this ain't right or that is wrong and the best one was when someone asked me, "Tere image ka kya hoga?" [What about your image?]

And I was like o_O. The only answer I choose was to laugh and tell him,
"Bhai, maine koi galat kaam nahi kiya....Incidents hai, padho ,khush raho aur bhool jao. Zyada dil pe mat lo. Sab ke saath hota hai...Waise teri wali kaisi hai?" 
[Bro, I didn't do anything wrong.....They are just incidents, read it, feel good and forget it. Don't let it boggle your mind! Every one has some story...BTW, how's your girl?]

He was dumbstruck and he soon changed the topic. Later as the conversation came to an end I told him there were still a hell lot of things coming that he might want to know. B-)

Cheers! 




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